ISBN:
Author: Bilal Philips & Jameelah Jones
Publisher: International Islamic Publishing House; IIPH (Saudi Arabia)
Pages: 100 Binding: Paperback
Description from the publisher:
Reviews
“Polygamy is the Muslim practice most frequently and severely maligned by
Westerners and modernist Muslims. This book can be read with profit by all
unprejudiced readers who wish to know its justification and rationale.
One of the greatest contrasts between Islam and the West is their
conflicting concepts of relations between the sexes. Indeed, the very first
question a Muslim convert is confronted with by an American or European is
‘Why does Islam allow four wives?’ This book...replies straightforwardly to
that question and much more.
The authors describe all the most important characteristics of marriage in
Islam, pointing out that the Western notions of sex equality and romantic
premarital ‘love’ are not necessary in Islamic marriage based on piety and the
commitment on the part of both parents to win the pleasure of Almighty
Allah.”
Maryam Jameelah
Muslim World Book Review, vol. 9, no. 3, 1989
Preface: Third Edition
i
Preface: First Edition
iii
Transliteration
v
1. Institutional Monogamy
1
Early Christians were Polygynous
2
Self-denial as a Way of Life
3
Monogamy Protects Males
5
2. Marriage in Islam
10
Marriage Superior to Transient Relationships
11
Rights of Marriage Partners
12
The Greater Responsibility of Males
19
A Wife's Duties
21
Obedience to Husbands
26
Muslim Women not like Non-believing Women
32
3. Ta'ad-dud : Polygyny
33
Legality of Polygyny
34
Women Outnumber Men
38
Male sex-drive and The Veil
39
Conditions for Plural Marriages
46
4. Division in Plural Marriages
50
The Principle of Equality
52
Beginning Division
54
Time Division
56
A Wife's Right to Time
59
Time Rights of a New Wife
62
Conjugal Rights
64
Making-up Time
66
Giving up Division Rights
71
Residence Rights
73
Spending and Clothing Rights
77
Gifts
78
5. Conclusion
81
Index of Hadiths
93
Bibliography
99